Our Top Bachelorette party ideas for the adventurous bride
Sure, Vegas is always a great option to celebrate your last days as an unmarried gal, but for those looking for a little change in scenery, we got you! We came up with a list of some of our top bachelorette party to-do’s. Not in any hurry to walk down the aisle? Make this your adventure bucket list! Make sure to check out Venue Report’s list of great spots, too! We love using them as a resource for many of our adventures and planning.
If you haven’t experienced the amazingness that is Moab, we highly suggest it. This place is perfect for the glamping girl – a little bit glam, a little bit rustic, and a whole lotta’ fun! The surroundings provide a magical backdrop for a serene and peaceful getaway. Moab Under Canvas has a variety of AMAZING spots to sleep and celebrate. Sip on some cocktails while you and your girls reminisce underneath a blanket of beautiful stars.
Address: 4135 Valley Commons Drive Ste. A, Bozeman, MT 597
There is something magically sweet about an Airstream Trailer. Maybe its the sleek design, or maybe its the fact that they make for some Pinterest-worthy photos – either way, we need one! Take a trip to Santa Barbara and rent out an airstrip from Autocamp! From the Autocamp Website: “Designed and built in Santa Barbara by Architect Matthew Hofmann, each Airstream is as unique as the history of its past. Boasting a combined 250 years of age – and surely thousands of miles on the road – our Airstreams are living out a third or fourth life as an Autocamp suite. Each Airstream comfortably sleeps four people and has been renovated locally with sustainable construction methods and materials.”
Address: 2717 De La Vina St. Santa Barbara, CA 93105
HIGHWAY ONE ROADTRIP
We’re big lovers of traveling, so any excuse to wrangle up the gals and we are in! What better way to celebrate with your friends than a big road trip on the coast. Take the Highway One road trip to explore the coast of California. Our suggestion? Rent one of these super fun Vintage Surfari Wagons to really complete the trip! Make sure you map out your stops ahead of time. There is so much to see!
For ideas and places to pit stop on the road trip, check out here and here.
On a budget? No problem! For a more wallet-friendly option, throw a backyard shindig and make it a movie night! Set up some themed snacks (salted caramel popcorn, anyone?), add some comfy blankets and pillows, and pop in some rom-coms! Step it up notch and host a small dinner before the movie. A simple white sheet can act as the screen while you play movies on an affordable projector from Amazon.
In a cultural moment where the rules of wedding etiquette tend to be in flux, it can be confusing to keep up and stay confident with what is expected. Following every single “rule” written by our friend Emily Post will definitely produce some tension, so let us take the reins on the research so you can get informed on all wedding etiquette & expectations. First up – pre wedding preparations. Stay tuned next week for part two, we’ll be discussing guest and hosting etiquette the day of the event.
Happy planning!
Xx, Calluna
Budget:
Talk About It. Though some families may stick to the tradition, modern weddings are not necessarily to be paid for by the brides parents. With many couples now contributing or covering the bill, its not completely expected that the brides family bears total financial responsibility. Don’t go into planning assuming certain people will be contributing.
Ask Tons of Questions. Before deciding on potential vendors, it is key that you ask a ton of questions about costs and extra fees. This open line of communication will help you keep a clear head and close eye on your budget. For example inquire about how much staff will be required on the day of, and what exactly they will be needed for.
The Invitations:
Who gets a plus one to this fancy fete? Traditional invitation etiquette suggests that a plus one is extended to a guest who is in a committed relationship; married, engaged or living together. If you couldn’t tell a theme in our blog, feel it out for what makes sense for your guest list. Our token of advice: find consistency in your method. With feelings on the line, it is best to create boundaries of what makes the most sense for you and your wedding.
Kids or no Kids? Having children invited to the wedding is entirely up to you, but make sure that it is made clear. If you decide to include children in the invite, you can write “and family” on the RSVP. However, it is also perfectly okay to invite just children from your close family but state clearly that you cannot invite everyones children for logistical purposes. If you do decide that you want children invited but don’t want your guests to have to be on chaperone duty, hire a nanny or babysitter to entertain the little ones at the event!
When to send? Save the dates have become increasingly more popular with the emergence of destination and long weekend weddings. Though they aren’t required, save the dates give your guests a chance to look forward to the special day as well as save some cash and make travel plans. We suggest sending them out at least 6 months in advance, and even earlier for destination weddings. When sending out your formal invitations, we suggest at least eight weeks before the wedding so that you can receive timely RSVP’s and keep the planning organized!
The Engagement Party:
When to throw the fabulous celebration? It is nice to host the engagement party soon after the engagement is announced so the news is still exciting and new. Want to make it even more exciting? Announce the engagement at the party itself!
Who hosts? Traditionally it is the brides parents that host the engagement party, however with wedding etiquette constantly evolving it is not rare to see friends of the couple hosting the party, or even the couple themselves choosing to throw their own gathering.
Who is invited? Usually anyone who is invited to the engagement party is also invited to the wedding. However, this doesn’t mean you have to invite everyone from the wedding to your engagement party. Many couples opt to keep the guest list to close friends and family. But, if you are having a rather small wedding and can’t accommodate everyone, the engagement party could be a great opportunity to include those who you can’t invite to the wedding.
Do you register beforehand? Though gifts aren’t traditionally expected, it is often the case that guests will show up with gifts in hand. For this reason it might be useful and helpful to your guests to have a registry to refer to!
Guest etiquette for engagement parties
Are gifts required for an engagement party? If there is no registry what are we supposed to give the couple? Don’t Overdo the Gift. We love the idea of giving something special for the couple to enjoy together. Don’t feel pressured to give something over the top or elaborate, but rather something that shows how much you care about the couple and their future life together.
Show your genuine style. We love the idea of giving a special set of champagne flutes for the couple to cheers with, or for a more foodie option, a tasteful basket of fine cheeses and meats for the couple to snack on during a pre-wedding picnic. We are especially in love with these baskets from Cured, a local Boulder, CO shop. If you really want to put the future newlyweds to the test, gift them with the Williams-Sonoma Newlywed cookbook and let them create amazing memories testing out new recipes.
The Bachelorette & Bachelor Party:
Bridal party etiquette for Bachelor & Bachelorette parties
Who pays? Traditionally the bridesmaids and groomsmen foot the bill for the bachelor or bachelorette festivities, including all of the costs for the bride and groom. You want them feel as special as possible so make it a point to save some extra cash to make the weekend the best it can be. That being said, you don’t want to break the bank and become resentful of the special weekend, so make sure to keep an open dialogue with the bride or groom about what is reasonable.
Listen Closely! The bachelor and bachelorette parties are supposed to be symbolic of the bride and grooms last single time out. That being said, not every bride or groom wants that wild weekend in Vegas (though there is nothing wrong with that!) Be the best bridesmaid or groomsmen you can be by listening to the needs of the guest of honor, even if its not exactly what you want. You want them feel comfortable and appreciative of all of your hard work.
Say Cheese! Make sure to document the weekend by snapping pics. You can even make a scrapbook or photo collage later on for the bride or groom to keep. However, make sure that you are social media cautious and double check with the guest of honor about what they want posted.
We took a break from wedding wonderland last week to spruce up our knife skills in the Sur La Table kitchen, attending “Summer at the Farmers Market” cooking class. We channeled our inner foodie and hunkered down for an exciting two hour, four course meal guided by personable and knowledgable Chef Kate Hegman, a Boulder based chef we’ve had the pleasure of working next to throughout the years. Each course brought different elements, techniques, styles and flavors, all centered around fresh, Farmers Market grown, local ingredients.
On the menu:
Grilled Sugar Snap Peas with Buttermilk Aoli
Watermelon Salad with Feta and Fresh Mint
Heirloom Tomato Galette with Parmesan Cream
Sweet Corn Ice Cream with Salted Caramel Sauce
This evening class was a peak of our week and we are dying to get the word out. Sur La Table has the best of all worlds – hands on instruction, conscious food selections, a creative environment that fosters learning and laughing (and let’s be honest, eating!) topped off by a I-didn’t-know-I-needed-that-but-it’s-amazing retail shop for every kitchen or hosting need. Welcome to all levels, every cooking stress, fear or question was whisked away by the hospitable staff and we were left with happy hearts and full tummies.
We love and recommend this class for a multitude of events – team bonding, holiday, parties & bachelorette gatherings to name a few. What’s more, book this class with a group of your people and it turns into a BYOB party! Bonding over sips and stirs sounds pretty perfect. Did we mention the food was delicious?!?
Book your cooking class here & tell em Calluna sent you!
